Self-directed support

Resources

Learn at your own pace! This page has a collection of tools, podcasts, and books. Whether you’re looking for quick tips or deep dives, there is something for you.

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Tools and tips

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Character Strengths

Character Strengths

A snapshot of 24 common character strengths. A useful inspiration to help you reflect on your own natural strengths.

Human Bill of Rights

Human Bill of Rights

Pete Walker’s list of fundamental boundaries and rights. These are practical guidelines for fairness and intimacy.

Nervous System Regulation Worksheet

Nervous System Regulation Worksheet

Notice signs that your body is holding tension. Discover techniques to invite more relaxation.

Guided Mindfulness

Guided Mindfulness

A library of free guided mindfulness and meditation audio clips.

Feelings Wheel

Feelings Wheel

An interactive tool to help you explore your emotions. Find words to describe what you feel.

Tips for Lovingly Resolving Conflict

Tips for Lovingly Resolving Conflict

Practical guidance for communicating during disagreements, de-escalating, and repairing connection.

Self-care Inventory

Self-care Inventory

Explore a menu of options for self-care in different areas of your life.

Self-care for Athletes

Self-care for Athletes

A guide to help you evaluate your coping strategies, find new tools, and create your own self-care routine.

Mental Health Action Plan

Mental Health Action Plan

Identify your comfort, challenge, and stop zones. Plan steps you can take to support yourself or get care.

Dopamine Menu

Dopamine Menu

A template to create your own menu of enjoyable activities to stimulate your brain when your energy runs low.

13 Steps for Managing Flashbacks

13 Steps for Managing Flashbacks

Pete Walker’s compassionate and practical guide for navigating emotional flashbacks and returning to ground in the present.

Relationship Inventory

Relationship Inventory

Identify your priorities in romantic relationships. Clarify your needs and desires to foster deeper connection.

3-step Mindfulness

3-step Mindfulness

Mindfulness exercise to tune into your breath and expand your awareness to the present moment.

Listen and learn

Podcasts

Audio content focused on psychology and self-development. Select a podcast circle to see more details.

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Being Well

Where should we begin?

The Happiness Lab

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Being Well

Amazing information and heartwarming delivery. Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson explore practical neuroscience, and research-backed psychology tools to build lasting emotional resilience.

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Deeper dive

Books

A selection of books exploring trauma recovery, relationship skills, mindfulness, and wellbeing. Click each book to see more details.

Taking the Leap
PEMA CHÖDRÖN
Taking the Leap
When Things Fall Apart
PEMA CHÖDRÖN
When Things Fall Apart
Complex PTSD
PETE WALKER
Complex PTSD
What My Bones Know
STEPHANIE FOO
What My Bones Know
Neurodharma
RICK HANSON, PHD
Neurodharma
Hold Me Tight
DR. SUE JOHNSON
Hold Me Tight
Flow
M. CSIKSZENTMIHALYI
Flow
The Way Forward
yung pueblo
The Way Forward
How to Love Better
YUNG PUEBLO
How to Love Better
Nonviolent
Communication
M. ROSENBERG, PHD
Nonviolent Communication
No Bad Parts
RICHARD C. SCHWARTZ
No Bad Parts
You Are the One
RICHARD SCHWARTZ
You Are the One You've Been Waiting For
Polysecure
Jessica Fern
Polysecure
Polywise
Jessica Fern
Polywise
The Myth of Normal
GABOR MATÉ WITH DANIEL MATÉ
The Myth of Normal
Healing Fragmented Selves
JANINA FISHER
Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors
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Taking the Leap: Freeing Ourselves from Old Habits and Fears

By Pema Chödrön

Drawing on Buddhist wisdom and practical mindfulness, Pema Chödrön offers transformative guidance on catching ourselves at the moment of 'shenpa' (the hook of reactivity) and learning how to stay present with uncomfortable feelings rather than escaping into old habits.

Crisis resources

Get help now

If you or someone you know needs immediate help, support is available 24/7. Call a crisis line or emergency services.

Crisis Hotlines (24/7)

  • Call 1-800-784-2433. This phone line provides confidential support for people who are in crisis, are really upset or scared, or have thoughts of suicide or self-harm. You can also call this number if you are concerned about someone else’s mental health.

  • Visit kidshelpphone.ca or text or call 1-800-668-6868. For kids and teens (ages 20 and under), professional counsellors are available to help, 24 hours a day.

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